In the US it’s called cougar dating. In the UK it is known as granny dating. It is an almost underground movement at the moment and definitely breaks tradition when it comes to dating. I say it is mostly an underground movement because it is not well understood yet by the masses and a search on a search engine will not get you very many results that are useful.
It is hard to research grannies dating, but there are plenty of grans who somehow catch wind of it and
decide its for them, as do the young men involved. Usually dating is between two people who are about the same age who have similar personalities and perhaps interests. They may also be relationships between two people of the same age for sexual reasons alone, or at least partly.
Granny dating is almost the same. It is two people with similar personalities and perhaps interests, only it is not between people of the same age by any means. GILF dating is when an older woman dates a younger man )in his twenties or so), usually, but not always, in a sexual way. The idea behind it is that age is just a number. Too many relationships are based too heavily on age and this is distressing those who are older and attracted to the young, or those who are young and attracted to the old.
“Granny dating sites” are here so two people interested in this activity can hook up and do their thing. They often battle a little bit of culture clash, but the grannies are eager to learn from the young.
It is pretty plain and simple to see why a granny would like this arrangement. She gets a younger man at an age when most people are not getting any at all, and then men are okay with this…why?
Experience. Experience is the answer to why young men are interested in older women. Older women probably started having sex over 40 years ago. That’s 40 years of experience, pretty enticing for a young male. There is a lot to be said for an old pro on dates and in bed is there not?
She certainly knows what she is doing and she is doing it well because she has had years of experience, probably doing it successfully for years too. The young men in the US are referred to as “cubs” and the grannies as “cougars”. This type of set up is becoming more and more common as time goes on.
Whether you are in it for the dating or the sex, granny dating may be your thing. A lot of men shy away from this sort of dating because it is unconventional and some people think it is weird. But there are also a lot of people who partake in this activity strictly because they think it would be weird NOT to date in this arrangement.
Then there are those who just want to try something new and exciting. Whether you are a granny or a young man who would like to be with a gran, you are in the right place right now.